The psycho-analysis of stickiness

(By Hella Ahmed) “No one is as empty as those who are full of themselves,” which is why you can’t really convince “psychoanalysis preachers” to leave you alone once they are obsessed with you. Their approach to everything related to connection to others and conflicts is based on circular (unnecessary) argumentation, they are supposed to reflect back to you everything you say to make you see the light through their personal psychic lenses when you definitely want them to keep their distance and leave you alone, you want a clear separation, bye!

Coercive control and exploitation

They get busy proving to you that truth necessarily comes from a point of view that is deluded in a sea of mental triturations they have the moral obligation to offer you, to save you, to elevate you! In other words, many among those very particular psychoanalysis preachers (and some of them sadly call themselves psychologists) have similar beliefs to cult gourous and religious fanatics: they don’t respect distance and boundaries or individual rights, they get in a one sided utilitarian relationship with you. It is very similar to coercive control, and they believe they don’t owe anybody an apology since they are the light everyone should turn to.

The problem with the sticky psycho-analysis preachers is that they will relentlessly continue to justify this attitude by using the concept of patient’s resistance to treatment, when in fact they have proclaimed themselves your pro bono psycho-analyst and you can’t say no. You can’t because it would simply be your resistance speaking, and also they have to treat you anyway, for the sake of the whole society. Your consent isn’t needed when the collective good is at stake, god is leading your « rescuing » mission and gave them licence to act. That is the common delirium of the psychoanalysis missionaries mixing up their pseudoscience with so-called spirituality or religious enlightenment going after you, for power and fame by all means.

Incompetence and idiocracy

Those who get obsessed with people who want nothing to do with them to impose their higher power are often toxic narcissists, sociopaths (or worse, psychopaths) masquerading as humanists. Many plagiarists claim to « debate » with an author they got fixated on to justify their abusive and irritating copycat-stalking behaviour , but what is debate? Is it a debate when you have a parasite and a host? It’s not a debate when there’s someone who actually writes and a lunatic vampire who can’t write a word, obsessed with stalking him/her to continually take credit for every idea.
The reality is that they are not only fraudsters, but probably also insane, because they do not understand the concept of boundaries, they stalk, copy and paste. They stick their invasive psychoanalysis on what does not belong to them, they pee on your ground to become visible. When confronted about their lack of respect and vampiric attacks on the identity of a true writer, they play the role of « victims of unfair rejection”. When they can no longer argue against your freedoms, they hide behind what they want you to see as vulnerability and openness, and they “act out”.

Toxic narcissism and misogyny

Narcissistic perverts who suffer pathological fixations always need to have the last word, their noses in your affairs, you have to let them rant about their imaginary holiness and do their useless psychoanalytic pirouettes while looking the other way! While they focus on their vicious imaginary revenge, let’s focus on our real, material revenge, which is to continue to be accomplished without dropping to their level of parasites who stay fixated year after year! It’s envy and jealousy that make them so obsessed and vindictive, let them go wild! The show remains laughable!

Misogynists are misogynists, that’s all, racism gives them the opportunity to act frankly and without much hesitation in this direction. No one is a misogynist at certain times and not at others, it is a deep conviction. Those who talk about values ​​to justify expressing misogyny tend to feel empowered by putting others down. Double standards based on outlandish beliefs help them achieve this. All misogynists work this way, there are no exceptions. And it is also thanks to misogynists that women suffering from internalized misogyny experience certain so-called victories. At the same time, it is thanks to these women that misogynists maintain their power until they finally fall hard and completely disappear from the public eye.

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