When respect is not mutual, mutual disrespect becomes the alternative

(By Hella Ahmed) 𝑊𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑛𝑜 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠, 𝑤𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑚𝑜𝑛 𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑠𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑙𝑙𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑙 𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑚𝑢𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑙 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑖𝑠.

Some things happen for a reason that makes sense for others but no to you, because they are planning their lives selfishly including you as part of their own puzzles, and what about you personally? What about your rights?

Being objectified

The over positive discourse claiming that every hardship or tragedy is a growth path only gives more freedom to abusers and sociopaths. They can just make your life hell and if the scheme doesn’t work like they planned in the end, because you fought back and stood up for yourself, they get to change the scenario and everything is supposed to be forgotten, you need to move on and be good to them.

People will plan your decent into hell and hurt you for years under cover, and when you expose them for what they are and what they did, they just hide behind their kids, their titles and their fake intellectualism with the help of an elitist/racist entourage, so they can keep up playing nice in public, not losing their privileges. It’s not denial, it’s organized atrocity, the laughable bullshit of hypocrisy.

When you are being objectified in this way, you’re basically turned into “something useful” in a scheme, you’re stripped out of your consciousness and your free will by selfish people who can’t let you be, but can let you exist only to fortify their egos. As they repeatedly violate your boundaries, they reject the idea of both your psychological and physical integrity. They also act blind to your legal existence as an entrepreneur to invade your apace and exploit you, they simply don’t consider you as having the right to property and the renommée that comes with standing out.

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